Once in a while, a student will make a comment to the entire class about the dance being too easy or some other form of complaint about the choreography. This REALLY bugs me, mostly because I've never witnessed the rare circumstance where the dance is too easy for the complainee. They can't even do what was given to them, never mind me making it harder. Do they really want to look like complete fools on stage? Don't they know I'm trying to save them from utter embarassment? Obviously not.
I'd really like to say 'Shut the bleep up. You suck. And if you really want me to point out every mistake you make, you'll go home crying every week.' Unfortunately, I teach children and I can't say those things. I have to sugar coat everything. So usually, my response is more like this. 'Why don't you work on perfecting the choreography I gave you first. Then, if I find it's too easy for you, I'll consider making it more challenging.' This never happens. Like I said, they suck. Before the class is over, I make sure to point out a few mistakes that the complainee made before sending them on their way.
Yesterday's circumstance was a little different. Let me first explain the situation. 3 of the most advanced tap classes (plus the girls in their class that take jazz & not tap) get together for the recital finale. Each class does their own dance for about a minute & a half. Then they all dance together for the last 2 minutes. One Saturday per month from February to June, they all get together to learn the 2 minutes of choreography, plus the transitions from one dance to the next.
This year, we have a new class of tappers joining the finale. They are young and inexperienced. When it came time for the part where they all dance together, the director and I made the choreography fairly simple, with lots of arms.
Yesterday, in walks big mouth. She is the youngest in the most advanced class. In my opinion, she shouldn't be in this class as well as, about 5 others. That decision was the director's and I've had to deal with it all year.
Big Mouth pulls the too easy card & shouts it to the class. I wanted to laugh in her face, but I didn't. I gave her my usual response. Clearly, this embarassed her and she approached me at the end of class trying to defend herself. She was just digging herself deeper. I told her this time that it was very disrespectful to the teacher with the way she voiced her concerns. She didn't like that either and sulked for the rest of the day.
Thursday, February 10, 2011
Monday, January 24, 2011
Not the Only One
I knew I wasn't the only one with funny students. I was reading a dance magazine today and ran across a little blurb from a dance teacher in Massachusetts.
Not that kind of dance teacherOne day I was shopping at a local mall, when one of my 5-year-old students spotted me. She was with her mother, who was pushing a baby in a stroller. She yanked on her mother’s coat, saying, “Mom! Mom!” but her mother was in a hurry and didn’t respond. When the child pulled again on her coat, the mother stopped abruptly and said, “What?” The child responded, “There is Miss Jo-Anne with her clothes on!” I immediately ran into the nearest store.
Jo-Anne Galavotti
Jo-Anne’s School of Dance
Palmer, MA
If I taught little ones, imagine the stories I'd have.
Not that kind of dance teacherOne day I was shopping at a local mall, when one of my 5-year-old students spotted me. She was with her mother, who was pushing a baby in a stroller. She yanked on her mother’s coat, saying, “Mom! Mom!” but her mother was in a hurry and didn’t respond. When the child pulled again on her coat, the mother stopped abruptly and said, “What?” The child responded, “There is Miss Jo-Anne with her clothes on!” I immediately ran into the nearest store.
Jo-Anne Galavotti
Jo-Anne’s School of Dance
Palmer, MA
If I taught little ones, imagine the stories I'd have.
Friday, January 21, 2011
Lip Piercing
I have a student who's a little firecracker. She moved here last year from Wisconsin. This little girl loves dance and has such a refreshing attitude about practice and classroom etiquette. She's in 6th grade. If you weren't looking at her, you'd think you were talking to an adult.
When it's time to change shoes, she likes to go out in the hall, grab her shoes, sit down next to me and talk about what's going on in her life while she puts on her shoes. Last week, she told me that a girl in her school came to class with a double lip piercing. Fish hook was showing it off to her friends and my student informs her that she'll never be able to get a respectable job with that thing in her mouth.
Hahaha! YAY for my student for having common sense and standing up to this girl!
Next question: Who in their right mind allows their 11 year old daughter get their lip pierced?? And not a tiny little stud, a DOUBLE lip loop!
When it's time to change shoes, she likes to go out in the hall, grab her shoes, sit down next to me and talk about what's going on in her life while she puts on her shoes. Last week, she told me that a girl in her school came to class with a double lip piercing. Fish hook was showing it off to her friends and my student informs her that she'll never be able to get a respectable job with that thing in her mouth.
Hahaha! YAY for my student for having common sense and standing up to this girl!
Next question: Who in their right mind allows their 11 year old daughter get their lip pierced?? And not a tiny little stud, a DOUBLE lip loop!
Wednesday, December 15, 2010
Update on Student
That student of mine who was diagnosed with severe depression quit a couple of weeks ago. The director told me that the student made the dance team at school. Dance team is free. Money is tight for her family, so she would be doing that instead. Selfishly, I was a little upset that I couldn't keep an eye on this kid. But, I thought, she's still dancing & it's free.. it's a win/win situation for her & her family.
Yesterday, I got an email from the student. It said, 'You must hate me because I quit. I'm really sorry. I miss you already. I've had some issues this year & this is a change I needed to make for me'.
I wrote back 'No, I don't hate you. I understand that you wanted to try something new. Good for you. It looks like you're being proactive in sorting out whatever it is that's wrong. Hope to see you soon. Keep in touch.'
When she responds again, she opens up a bit about her depression, tells me more about the dance team, etc. She thanked me for being a great teacher & begged me again not to be mad at her. Oh boy. I wrote her back & filled the email with lots of compliments, a personal story from high school and forsight into her future. I told her to contact me anytime if she needs to talk/vent. I hope I didn't open a can of worms here.
Yesterday, I got an email from the student. It said, 'You must hate me because I quit. I'm really sorry. I miss you already. I've had some issues this year & this is a change I needed to make for me'.
I wrote back 'No, I don't hate you. I understand that you wanted to try something new. Good for you. It looks like you're being proactive in sorting out whatever it is that's wrong. Hope to see you soon. Keep in touch.'
When she responds again, she opens up a bit about her depression, tells me more about the dance team, etc. She thanked me for being a great teacher & begged me again not to be mad at her. Oh boy. I wrote her back & filled the email with lots of compliments, a personal story from high school and forsight into her future. I told her to contact me anytime if she needs to talk/vent. I hope I didn't open a can of worms here.
Friday, November 19, 2010
Life outside the classroom
I've been really bad at updating this blog lately. Shame on me! But the reality of it is that there hasn't been too much to blog about. Nothing I'd want to read about anyway.
What's on my mind is what happens to my students outside of my classroom. I'm sure for many of them, life is just peachy keen. Oh to be a kid again! But for some, life's kind of shitty. To be fair, I don't know what goes on at home. Sometimes though, I get a little snippet of their life & really feel for these kids.
I recently became aware of a student of mine who's severely depressed. So much so, that she's already tried to hurt herself. I had no clue. In class, her behavior has been the same. She's always been polite, funny & talkative and still is. She's a good kid.
A few years ago, another student's mom died of cancer. She had been battling her disease for over a year & eventually lost. That entire time, I had no idea her mom was sick. The girl never let on that anything was out of the ordinary. After her death, the girl took on the role of mother for her younger siblings. What a huge responsibility for a teenager.
Everytime I hear of a situation like this, it makes me wonder what else is going on that I don't know about? Is there anything I can do besides allowing them to let dance class be their outlet?
I'm glad the student who's depressed is now getting the help she needs. The other student (who's mom died) is in college now & is a lovely young lady. It's heartbreaking to come across these situations, but from my experience they come out stronger.
What's on my mind is what happens to my students outside of my classroom. I'm sure for many of them, life is just peachy keen. Oh to be a kid again! But for some, life's kind of shitty. To be fair, I don't know what goes on at home. Sometimes though, I get a little snippet of their life & really feel for these kids.
I recently became aware of a student of mine who's severely depressed. So much so, that she's already tried to hurt herself. I had no clue. In class, her behavior has been the same. She's always been polite, funny & talkative and still is. She's a good kid.
A few years ago, another student's mom died of cancer. She had been battling her disease for over a year & eventually lost. That entire time, I had no idea her mom was sick. The girl never let on that anything was out of the ordinary. After her death, the girl took on the role of mother for her younger siblings. What a huge responsibility for a teenager.
Everytime I hear of a situation like this, it makes me wonder what else is going on that I don't know about? Is there anything I can do besides allowing them to let dance class be their outlet?
I'm glad the student who's depressed is now getting the help she needs. The other student (who's mom died) is in college now & is a lovely young lady. It's heartbreaking to come across these situations, but from my experience they come out stronger.
Wednesday, September 15, 2010
New Year
Tonight, I'm back to teaching. I'm sure there will be plenty to write about now. Over the summer, there wasn't much to report (dance related). I taught a few summer classes. Some were at the studio with a new group of kids. They were great & eager to learn. I'm looking forward to teaching them this year. I also taught a couple classes at other schools. This past Monday, I taught an advanced contemporary class. They were great too. Maybe because I was new for them, but they didn't talk. They corrected everything I said, right away. They were a pleasure. Which brings me to this blog post. I realized that my regular students and I are too comfortable with each other. Today, I'm coming up with a list of expectations for both them & me.
What I Expect from my Students
1. The word CAN'T is not to be spoken in my classroom. Of course you can! You may be having trouble with something or are working on it, but you never 'can't do something'.
2. Come to class ready to dance. This includes walking in with a positive attitude, dressing appropriately (leotard, shoes, tights, etc), being engaged in every activity and having your hair up. Make sure your hair stays up for the duration of the class.
3. Challenge yourself. Push yourself more than you did the week before. Stretch farther, kick higher, etc. Set goals for yourself. Maybe you want to be able to do a right split by December. Maybe you want to do a triple pirouette in the recital. Work hard & make it happen.
4. Dance with an open mind. If you don't like something, give it a chance. Maybe it'll grow on you, maybe you'll learn something from it. But don't whine about it. Dance is about being a good actress without being able to speak. If you really dislike whatever we're doing, use that time to practice your acting skills. Convince me that you love it.
5. Have confidence in yourself. If something is difficult, don't give up right away. Work at it & it will come. Maybe you'll get it by the end of class. Maybe you'll get it next week. Maybe you'll get it by the end of the year. Imagine your satisfaction if you've been working on something since September and you finally get it in June.
6. Be respectful of your teacher, yourself & your classmates. Everyone is here for the same reason. They love to dance and want to be better. Encourage your friends. Clap when someone tries, does something well, at the end of class, etc. Clapping at the end of class lets your teacher know that you appreciate their time and dedication.
7. Pay attention. Don't let the teacher give the same correction more than once. Even if the teacher is not talking directly to you, she may be saying something that will help you. If she told Susie to point her toes during a leap, make sure that your toes are pointed when it's your turn.
8. Remember, we are here to dance. Keep talking to a minimum & relevant. If you really want to tell me about Grandma Meme's surprise birthday party, send me a message on facebook. I do care about your new puppy & would love to see pictures, but not while I'm trying to dance.
9. Come to class. You can't learn and excel if you're not in class. In fact, you regress. Missing a week, makes that split you've been working on take that much longer to attain. Expecting the teacher to repeat what was taught while you were absent is disrespectful to your classmates that were present.
10. Be ready to start class on time. Warm up is a big deal. You will be capable of achieving more in class when your body is properly stretched. Plan to arrive at the studio before your class begins so that you can pre-stretch & talk with your friends before class. If you must arrive late, come into the class quietly & stretch on your own out of the way.
11. Practice. Practice at home, while your waiting for the bus, standing in line at the grocery store, etc. Show or teach your non-dancing friends what you've been doing. Keep a notebook on how to do a step, any corrections you've received & the counts/steps to a dance.
12. Try something new. Take advantage of the class coupons. Being a versatile dancer makes you a stronger dancer all around. Attend a dance convention. It's so exciting to be able to take a class from a famous dancer/choreographer and be surrounded by a ton of other dancers that share the same passion as you. Maybe it'll be the inspiration that you need.
13. Take corrections well & try to fix it immediately. Ask questions if you need clarification. Remember & apply the correction forever and ever. Please understand that if you receive a correction, it's not because the teacher is picking on you or that you aren't a good dancer. Even professional dancers get corrected (see SYTYCD). Corrections are intended to make you a better dancer. No one is perfect, but we can try.
14. If something happens in class that you weren't happy with, don't take it personally. Reflect on any mistake or correction, and try to do better in the next class. If you are still upset about something, don't go grumbling to mom. Be a mature young adult & see your teacher at the end of class to ask when's a good time to speak with her. In between classes, is not a good time.
15. Be a positive role model. The younger dancers at the school look up to you. They want to be and dance like you. Keep that in mind when you have any contact with them. They absorb your language, energy and attitude.
16. Never roll your eyes, sigh, sit or lean during class. It shows the teacher that you aren't interested in the class or becoming a better dancer.
17. When doing a combination across the floor, the next group is expected to start after the 1st group completes one set of the combination (unless told otherwise). Keep the line moving.
18. If your group is sent back to try the combination again, walk around the sides of the room so that you are not in the way of other dancers.
19. If there is a time when you are waiting for your turn, practice something on your own.
20. If the teacher asks a question, reply. If you have a question, ask it. There's probably other classmates that have the same question & could benefit from the response. Don't just nod if you really don't understand what to do.
21. If a teacher asks you to do something that is different from what you are used to, it does not make either way wrong. It is just different. Be grateful of learning another variation of something you are already familiar with.
22. Keep your body healthy. Eat properly. Stay in shape. Nurse injuries appropriately.
23. Do not gossip. It's not fair to judge. If you have a concern about anything dance related (a student, a teacher, the school, etc), please speak to me (or Miss Sharon) privately.
24. Dancers need to be strong. Strengthening exercises are not meant to be a punishment or torturous. They are necessary to obtain strong muscles needed for more advanced movements.
What My students can Expect from Me:
1. I am here to teach you to be a better dancer. I will give you encouragement, corrections, praise and discipline.
2. Commitment. I will give each class 100%. I want you to be better dancers. I want you to learn. I want you to try harder. I want you to reach your goals. This will be my focus for the entire class and year.
3. Reliability. I will be in class every week, ready to teach. Occasionally, something may come up where I will not be in. In that case, the class will be covered by another teacher.
4. I will challenge you in every class. Material will be presented that is level appropriate & challenging for every student in the class. Students will be encouraged to aim for perfection. If I notice something is too easy for you, I will find a way to make it harder.
5. I do not play favorites. I care about everyone's development as a dancer equally. If you notice that another dancer got a special part in a dance or was chosen for something, it is because they deserved it. They must have worked extra hard or improved a lot. It is not because the teacher likes that dancer better than you. Be honest with yourself to determine why that dancer was chosen.
6. I will take the time to answer questions & explain how/why it is done this way.
7. I will try to expose each class to different styles & techniques to present material in a different light.
I realize my list is so much shorter than theirs. I'll add more soon.
What I Expect from my Students
1. The word CAN'T is not to be spoken in my classroom. Of course you can! You may be having trouble with something or are working on it, but you never 'can't do something'.
2. Come to class ready to dance. This includes walking in with a positive attitude, dressing appropriately (leotard, shoes, tights, etc), being engaged in every activity and having your hair up. Make sure your hair stays up for the duration of the class.
3. Challenge yourself. Push yourself more than you did the week before. Stretch farther, kick higher, etc. Set goals for yourself. Maybe you want to be able to do a right split by December. Maybe you want to do a triple pirouette in the recital. Work hard & make it happen.
4. Dance with an open mind. If you don't like something, give it a chance. Maybe it'll grow on you, maybe you'll learn something from it. But don't whine about it. Dance is about being a good actress without being able to speak. If you really dislike whatever we're doing, use that time to practice your acting skills. Convince me that you love it.
5. Have confidence in yourself. If something is difficult, don't give up right away. Work at it & it will come. Maybe you'll get it by the end of class. Maybe you'll get it next week. Maybe you'll get it by the end of the year. Imagine your satisfaction if you've been working on something since September and you finally get it in June.
6. Be respectful of your teacher, yourself & your classmates. Everyone is here for the same reason. They love to dance and want to be better. Encourage your friends. Clap when someone tries, does something well, at the end of class, etc. Clapping at the end of class lets your teacher know that you appreciate their time and dedication.
7. Pay attention. Don't let the teacher give the same correction more than once. Even if the teacher is not talking directly to you, she may be saying something that will help you. If she told Susie to point her toes during a leap, make sure that your toes are pointed when it's your turn.
8. Remember, we are here to dance. Keep talking to a minimum & relevant. If you really want to tell me about Grandma Meme's surprise birthday party, send me a message on facebook. I do care about your new puppy & would love to see pictures, but not while I'm trying to dance.
9. Come to class. You can't learn and excel if you're not in class. In fact, you regress. Missing a week, makes that split you've been working on take that much longer to attain. Expecting the teacher to repeat what was taught while you were absent is disrespectful to your classmates that were present.
10. Be ready to start class on time. Warm up is a big deal. You will be capable of achieving more in class when your body is properly stretched. Plan to arrive at the studio before your class begins so that you can pre-stretch & talk with your friends before class. If you must arrive late, come into the class quietly & stretch on your own out of the way.
11. Practice. Practice at home, while your waiting for the bus, standing in line at the grocery store, etc. Show or teach your non-dancing friends what you've been doing. Keep a notebook on how to do a step, any corrections you've received & the counts/steps to a dance.
12. Try something new. Take advantage of the class coupons. Being a versatile dancer makes you a stronger dancer all around. Attend a dance convention. It's so exciting to be able to take a class from a famous dancer/choreographer and be surrounded by a ton of other dancers that share the same passion as you. Maybe it'll be the inspiration that you need.
13. Take corrections well & try to fix it immediately. Ask questions if you need clarification. Remember & apply the correction forever and ever. Please understand that if you receive a correction, it's not because the teacher is picking on you or that you aren't a good dancer. Even professional dancers get corrected (see SYTYCD). Corrections are intended to make you a better dancer. No one is perfect, but we can try.
14. If something happens in class that you weren't happy with, don't take it personally. Reflect on any mistake or correction, and try to do better in the next class. If you are still upset about something, don't go grumbling to mom. Be a mature young adult & see your teacher at the end of class to ask when's a good time to speak with her. In between classes, is not a good time.
15. Be a positive role model. The younger dancers at the school look up to you. They want to be and dance like you. Keep that in mind when you have any contact with them. They absorb your language, energy and attitude.
16. Never roll your eyes, sigh, sit or lean during class. It shows the teacher that you aren't interested in the class or becoming a better dancer.
17. When doing a combination across the floor, the next group is expected to start after the 1st group completes one set of the combination (unless told otherwise). Keep the line moving.
18. If your group is sent back to try the combination again, walk around the sides of the room so that you are not in the way of other dancers.
19. If there is a time when you are waiting for your turn, practice something on your own.
20. If the teacher asks a question, reply. If you have a question, ask it. There's probably other classmates that have the same question & could benefit from the response. Don't just nod if you really don't understand what to do.
21. If a teacher asks you to do something that is different from what you are used to, it does not make either way wrong. It is just different. Be grateful of learning another variation of something you are already familiar with.
22. Keep your body healthy. Eat properly. Stay in shape. Nurse injuries appropriately.
23. Do not gossip. It's not fair to judge. If you have a concern about anything dance related (a student, a teacher, the school, etc), please speak to me (or Miss Sharon) privately.
24. Dancers need to be strong. Strengthening exercises are not meant to be a punishment or torturous. They are necessary to obtain strong muscles needed for more advanced movements.
What My students can Expect from Me:
1. I am here to teach you to be a better dancer. I will give you encouragement, corrections, praise and discipline.
2. Commitment. I will give each class 100%. I want you to be better dancers. I want you to learn. I want you to try harder. I want you to reach your goals. This will be my focus for the entire class and year.
3. Reliability. I will be in class every week, ready to teach. Occasionally, something may come up where I will not be in. In that case, the class will be covered by another teacher.
4. I will challenge you in every class. Material will be presented that is level appropriate & challenging for every student in the class. Students will be encouraged to aim for perfection. If I notice something is too easy for you, I will find a way to make it harder.
5. I do not play favorites. I care about everyone's development as a dancer equally. If you notice that another dancer got a special part in a dance or was chosen for something, it is because they deserved it. They must have worked extra hard or improved a lot. It is not because the teacher likes that dancer better than you. Be honest with yourself to determine why that dancer was chosen.
6. I will take the time to answer questions & explain how/why it is done this way.
7. I will try to expose each class to different styles & techniques to present material in a different light.
I realize my list is so much shorter than theirs. I'll add more soon.
Monday, August 16, 2010
Affirmations
I like when I can find great quotes or affirmations that relate to dance. Here are some that I like.
Football coach Vince Lombardi’s quote, “Inches make champions”.
I like Michael Jordan's quote: “Some people wish it would happen, some hope it will happen, and some make it happen.” I ask my students what they are doing right now to make themselves better dancers.
If you are not planning to succeed, you will fail.
Find your balance.
Football coach Vince Lombardi’s quote, “Inches make champions”.
I like Michael Jordan's quote: “Some people wish it would happen, some hope it will happen, and some make it happen.” I ask my students what they are doing right now to make themselves better dancers.
If you are not planning to succeed, you will fail.
Find your balance.
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